CELEBRATE!
Thanksgiving
has just past and it has set me to ponder how we celebrate in our lives. I find
it sad that the frequency and fervency of our celebrations has declined and
continues to decline in our busy and hectic lives.
I
think many factors have caused this. Families simply aren’t as large as they
used to be and job availability has put hundreds, even thousands of miles
between family members.
I
also sense that our ability and willingness to celebrate is also in decline.
The rush and pressure of our lives are easily to blame but I think we need to
renew our diligence in discovering time and new ways to celebrate.
One
of my favorite stories from my parents is about box socials. Box socials were
get-togethers that involved the auctioning off of boxed lunches that were
prepared by the women. The successful bidder would share the meal with the one
who prepared it. Often, a potential sweetheart might let her man of choice know
just how she had decorated the box that she had prepared so he would know which
one to bid on. How romantic!
Here’s
a crazy thought for you to consider: what if you began a practice of romancing YOURSELF?
What about taking the time to ask yourself what it is you truly need and then
set about filling a ‘box’ of things that will nurture and sustain you?
Try pausing
mid-day for a soothing cup of tea, celebrating the fact that you’ve made it
through your morning. What about reading a short inspirational piece at bedtime
to quiet your mind and nurture your hope that tomorrow can be a better day?
It
all begins with a sense of gratitude. Yes, gratitude can restore your sense of
celebration! And gratitude always takes what you have and turns it into more.
Here’s a perfect example: the gift of a zucchini from a neighbor’s garden turned
into a wonderful hour of baking for me and later it turned into much delight
for my family – the muffins were delicious!
With
autumn in our midst we can easily find ways to celebrate. Thanksgiving is what
first comes to mind but how about that dreadful chore of raking up all of those
leaves? Instead of grumbling, can
you approach the task by celebrating the fact that just like the trees can shed
their leaves, you too can shed your burdens and troubles and accept a moment of
peace?
Here’s
another crazy thought: Remember how, as a child, you would rake up a huge pile
of leaves and then jump into the middle of it, rolling with giggles of delight?
Can you remember how you used to bury yourself at the bottom of the pile? Do it
again! Your neighbors will think you have lost it, but your spirit will soar!
The
tiniest of things can be cause for celebration! I dare you, dear reader,
CELEBRATE!
My grandson, Gage, celebrating his 2nd birthday with a monkey cake!
Originally published in the October 8, 2010 issue of the WRFP.